5/5 ⭐ | Unsettled: A Memoir by Laurie Woodford

Forty-eight years old, divorced and living in New York, author Laurie Woodford was having what some might call a mid-life crisis.  Hungry for adventure, tired of the same old, or in fact a mid-life crisis, whatever you call it, it was the catalyst to what became a laugh out loud hilarious memoir, “Unsettled.”

Prepare to cry from laughing, live vicariously, and gain perspective of the world through the travels laid across these pages.  With dating encounters that will have you belly laughing, like a gentleman with a wandering eye to the smooth, hairless complexion of someone entirely outside of Laurie’s self-described attraction to very hairy men.  To travel adventures like caring for a seventeen-year-old dog in exchange for a free place to lay your head, or to coming home early from work to construction workers using your fridge and unit as their own personal lunchroom, the stories within are truly entertaining.

Asia to South America, Mexico to Arkansas and Oklahoma, “Unsettled” packs the true realities of adventuring, dating in your fifties, and working in foreign countries.  Organized successively as a collection of experiences and events, author Laurie Woodford keeps readers coming back for more of her encounters and adventures.  Detailing the lonely, the learning, the challenges with time differences, and moving on, this memoir provides the good, the bad, and the hilarious of Woodford’s unsettled adventures.

Aptly named, and expertly presented, “Unsettled” is quite the memorable collection of travelling escapades.  Laurie’s hysterical antics and sidesplitting experiences made for an amusing and quick read.   

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You’ll Never Believe What Happened to Lacey: Crazy Stories about Racism by Amber Ruffin & Lacey Lamar

Publication Date: January 12th, 2021

Rating: 5 Stars

“We are not trying to educate white America, but maybe we accidently did.  Maybe white readers learned that just because your Black friends aren’t sitting you down, going over all their trauma with you, doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist!  Maybe you’ve learned that racist stuff happens all the time.” – p. 213

The stories in this book are gross, disgusting and downright disturbing.  However, as a white woman who has spent the entirety of her life in the Midwestern United States, I am not even slightly surprised by them. 

Author Amber Ruffin has spent her career in comedy.  From improv troupes to Second City and Saturday Night Live tryouts alongside Leslie Jones, her comedy career has certainly been impressive.  Currently, she can be found writing for Late Night with Seth Meyers and hosting her own show on the streaming platform Peacock.  Using her comedy prowess, Ruffin is able to keep this painfully racist book in an upbeat, laugh out loud manner that makes you feel so guilty for laughing but unable to stop the tears from flowing.

Joining Ruffin in writing You’ll Never Believe What Happened to Lacey, is Lacey Lamar, the very subject behind each of the racist events playing out on the pages (although there are a few stories from Amber and even one or two involving her mother and other siblings).  Lacey continues to live in their hometown of Omaha, Nebraska where she daily encounters absurd racism in present day America.  Having survived a host of jobs, coworkers and random strangers on the street Lacey provides the outrageous entertainment that Amber cannot help but spin hilariously onto the pages.  Written in dueling fonts both Amber and Lacey at times converse on the pages from states away (Lacey in NE and Amber in NY). 

Using their comical talents, Ruffin and Lamar create a wholly entertaining read that makes you cry laughing while also crying because the stories of racism are so cruelly ugly and heartbreaking.   We’ve got to do better; it’s overwhelming how terrible and prevalent racism is here in America. And these stories, while written to entertain, also educate and graphically lay out the grotesque world we live in.  Shining a sad light on the Midwest, You’ll Never Believe What Happened to Lacey is the important book we CONTINUE to need in 2021.

*Disclaimer: A review copy was provided by the publisher; all opinions are my own.